From Steve’s Library 07/2004

Some time ago I turned down an invitation to speak in Australia for a whole month. It was an opportunity to address Christian men about the importance of discipling their families. What a great opportunity!

Then why did I turn it down, especially since I’ve always wanted to go to Australia? Well it’s simple, I couldn’t take my family with me. They invited me to come in March when my kids are in school. I found it ironic that I should go to Australia and leave my own family in order to instruct other men in how they can disciple their families. When I stopped and thought about it, I simply could not justify the trip.

If God should call you to use your gifts and abilities in another country and culture, then I’d go for it. But don’t go by yourself. Don’t let the enemy sucker you into neglecting your family. It’s one of his all time favorite methods for dividing your family.

—Steve Farrar

Steve Farrar was the author of many books, including the best-sellers Point Man, Finishing Strong, and Battle Ready: Be Strong and of Good Courage in These Troubled Times.